Wednesday, May 18, 2011

Wishful Wednesday True Story (graphic)

For this wishful Wednesday I wish for something that can't be taken back. 
I wish 15th Street in Tuscaloosa still stood in all its fame and glory.

Selfishly, I wish I could drive my daughter down this street in 15 years and tell here these are the streets mommy and daddy walked down the summer we fell in love.

But my wishes can't come true this time.... so instead... I thought I would share a story unlike any other I have read so far about the storm.
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I received this as an email towards the end of last week. 
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This is the only written account I have read from a survivor of the Tuscaloosa Tornado.
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I felt and knew the severity of this storm but this guy's story makes me feel like I was there living each passing second with him. 

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If you haven't said a prayer for Tuscaloosa can I ask that you do so after reading this??
Warning: he shared photos and the story is quite long. I promise it is totally worth it.
Here is his story:
 This is my experience during the tornado that swept through Alberta and Tuscaloosa in as much detail as I can muster with the medication I am on. I need to put this down for therapeutic reasons and for others to read because I can't keep re-telling this story. If you are to take anything away from this story it is two things: 1)God saved so many people that day including me and 2)disasters bring out the absolute best in some people...and the absolute worst in others. I am going to write down the events exactly as I remember them while I still can. I will add details that I have gathered from accounts by my neighbor and judging from materials stuck inside my body. I would also like to point out that any person I don't reference by name (such as neighbor) I had not really met before. Here goes:
At roughly 4pm on April 27, 2011, I was sitting in FI 414 class listening to presentation on industries and the severe weather alarms went off and the University cancelled classes for the rest of the day. I considered staying on campus, but I saw everyone else leaving and decided I would be fine going to my apartment (face palm). This is probably my biggest regret of my life purely for the fact that I let the actions of others sway my opinion and nearly kill me. I walked to my truck that was parked roughly a mile away near the Coliseum. I knew we were in for a storm when the wind knocked my backpack off my shoulder halfway there. I made it to my truck and drove to my apartment that was located at the intersection of University Blvd. and 25th Avenue East in Alberta City, AL. During my drive, I received several texts from both my older and younger sisters warning me that some severe storms were heading to my area. Naturally, I discounted them as hysteria and paranoia and continued on my merry way. I got to my apartment at roughly 4:30pm and popped a frozen pizza in the oven for dinner. I turned on my computer and pulled up my assignments for the night. As I began working through my homework, I got some more texts from friends warning me of the weather. I assured them all that I would be perfectly safe in my sturdy apartment. The timer for the pizza went off so I got it out of the oven and took two slices to my room. I hadn't eaten much for lunch so I was ravenous. I ate nearly the entire pizza. This small detail probably saved my life. More on that later.
The power in my apartment went out at roughly 5pm and so I opened the shades on my window to read and look outside. I noticed the trees behind my apartment swaying at a steep angle. Then I decided I should probably close all windows and doors. I did so. Just then my buddy Sean Philips texted me that I should find cover. I was coming up with a clever retort about how paranoid he is being when my ears popped really hard and I heard what sounded like a train outside my window. I had watched enough news to know this meant a tornado. I jumped into my closet and slammed the door shut. I felt the whole building shaking so I grabbed the door knob and held it shut with all my strength. Then I heard tearing and ripping noises which had to be my back wall tearing away. At this point, I wanna point out that if any of these events had occurred slightly differently or in a different order, I would have been buried. Anyway, the back wall tore away from the building and the door to my closet began shaking open and I kept pulling it back closed. After a couple seconds of this struggle, the door and I were sucked out of the closet and through the back wall. I never rose more than a couple feet off the ground but, judging from memories of where things were, I flew about 40 feet total. The winds flung me from the back wall into the chain link fence 10-15 feet behind my apartment with enough force to leave bruises of the chain links in my side. It then flung me back into some piles of rubble where I was then rolled around on the ground for about 15 seconds before it subsided slightly. I looked up from my prone position and I was lying on tile floor and I could see my neighbor lying on top of her baby trying to shield her. I also heard myself screaming and realized I had been screaming the entire time but hadn't noticed.
 The winds were beginning to pick up again so I ran over to my neighbor and threw myself on top of them to try and shield them. Somewhere along the way I stepped on a piece of wood with enough force to shove a 3-inch piece through the bottom of my foot. Please take note, this was not an act of heroism, but desparation. As far as my concussed mind could think, I truly believed during that split second that we three were the only beings left in a world that had dissolved around us. I acted to try and preserve the only other people left in this Hell so I wouldn't be alone if I survived. I laid on top of her and immediately the winds picked up again. I was bombarded with (judging from wounds and what is still imbedded in my back at the time of this writing) glass, roofing shingles, pieces of wood, and a Bic pen. LOL. I know this for sure because I pulled it out of my side when I stood up. The storm finally dissipated after roughly 10-20 seconds and slowly stood up. Due to adrenaline and shock, I did not notice any of the injuries I suffered. However, I did notice that I could barely hear anything and my ears were bleeding from the pressure of the storm (the earlier popping that alerted me of the tornado). Everyone's ears were. The poor baby's ears were pouring blood. At this point, I surveyed my body. My jeans, watch, glasses, and shirt had been ripped from my body.Somehow, I was still holding my iPhone in my right hand. Just then a call came through. It was my older sister, Christina. I could only stare at it in disbelief before answering. I don't remember our conversation, but she later relayed it to me. Here it is as she remembers it:
Christy: Randy??? Randy???
Me: Kiki! My apartment; it's gone. The baby is bleeding. I lost my glasses. My foot is bleeding bad. There are people stuck. I have to go.
I then hung up the phone because people were screaming from within piles of rubble. I limped over to the nearest pile where one of my neighbor's head was sticking out from beneath a section of roof. I pulled off a couple small pieces of wood before collapsing. I think I blacked out for a couple seconds. Next thing I remember, he is digging himself out. He comes to check on me and almost slips in the puddle of blood and water at my feet. He tears off his shirt and ties it around my foot (I had no shoes or socks on before it hit). He helps me stand and we look around at the damage. I see my childhood friend Austin and his girlfriend Mary and their dog that live six doors down from me. They are standing in their bathroom. I yell to them and then begin trying to crawl out. At some point I believe a neighbor (maybe Mary) throws me a woman's loafer which I put on my left foot to protect it. It was a left shoe that was about 2 sizes too small but I barely noticed. I can't walk because of my foot so i throw some sections of my couch across the short wall of sharp debri between me and what's left of the parking lot and begin crawling on my hands and knees across. Due to the composition and layout of the debris, I am forced to crawl on my belly under my truck to get out (it was then parked in my living room and totalled).
I finally reach the parking lot covered in blood, dirt, oil, and sheetrock dust. I lend a neighbor my phone and then I spot my friend and neighbor, Brandon and hobble to him to check him out. Amazingly, he is unhurt. We both hear someone yelling that another storm is about to touch down in the area so we immediately take off to find shelter. I lose track of everyone else. Austin and Mary help dig out some neighbors. Brandon lends me his shoulder and we begin walking (me hopping) to the Piggly Wiggly down the street. We hear that they are not letting people in so we detour to the local Save-A-Lot and ask the manager if he is letting people in. He lets us in. I sit on the nearest checkout station while Brandon runs to find first aid supplies. He finds peroxide, paper towels, and scotch tape. I use what little Spanish I know to try to cheer up a small hispanic child that was crying near me. I begin to feel very faint from blood loss so I start chugging as much Gatorade as possible to keep blood sugar up so I don't pass out. The pizza I ate earlier also probably kept me awake and alive. Brandon begins cleaning and wrapping my foot. We then see that there is still wood sticking out. We wrap paper towels and tape over it to try to stop the blood loss.
I then begin to feel a slight itchy, burning sensation on my back so I asked him to take a look. He says that I have a few cuts on my back. I'm glad he didn't tell me the extent to which it was messed up. We stay in the store and wait for the next tornado to touch down. I sit on a rolling cart so that Brandon could quickly wheel me to the back if it came. We were all getting ready to run to the back and lock ourselves inside the freezer. I tell Brandon to gather some food and water in case we are trapped inside the store. I feel prepared, so I try to slow breathing and heart rate to slow blood flow. Some time later (I began losing track of time and events) we see people run into the bank to steal money and cops arrest them. This pissess us all off for obvious reasons. Brandon and I walk (and hop) up to the Texaco because we hear they have set up a triage center there. We get there and they turn us away so we go back to the store. I am exhausted from blood loss and hopping everywhere. I should point out that I am hopping down the street wearing only my silver cross necklace and boxers and the homemade bandages on my foot. It's funny now, not so much then.
 We stay in the store for a while. A woman who was in the store earlier comes running back and leads a cop to where I'm lying. I owe her and Brandon both my life. I would have bled out within a couple hours if that cop hadn't found me. He calls in a truck and I jump in the back and they drive me to the hospital. I ask for pen in the bed of the truck so I can write my name and medical info and mom's phone number on my body in case I pass out again and can't talk to nurses. We get to the hospital and I am assigned a radomized name for legal reasons (Raja Ed Downtime). I ask over and over again for them to call my mom to check on Jessica because she is home alone in Homewood and I heard a storm passed by there. 
I will never forget the nurse who helped me, Nurse Jackie. She checked up on me throughout my X-Rays and CT scans and stitches over the next 6-8 hours. I felt like I was her only patient although she likely had scores of them at this time. I plan on thanking her personally as soon as I can travel. 
This is where the story ends. I am just one person among hundreds, possibly thousands of people hurt in a city where neighbors and strangers alike risked their own lives to save each other. I tried to help who I could any way I could and I owe my life to many others. Thank you, Nurse Jackie for consoling me while I was alone for those many hours. Thank you, Brandon for lending me a friendly shoulder and thinking only of others. Thank you, Lady from Save-A-Lot for finding me a ride to the hospital. Thank you, Mom for forcing Delta airlines to let you off of a plane preparing to take off. Thank you, Jimmy and Jessica for looking throughout hospital (and morgue) for me for hours before finding me. Thank you to the men and women of the National Guard, fire departments, and police departments around the state. Many of us wouldn't have made it without yall. And, of course, thank you, GOD. Even as the clothes and material possessions were ripped from my body, your symbol stayed fimly around my neck and in my heart.     
It is long, but I can already feel a massive weight lifted from my chest. This note has done its job. If you are reading this, you are my friend and share the honor of calling me "pal".  ;)











 

The best I can tell this is an aerial of McFarland Blvd. I may be totally off but from what I am hearing first hand you can drive down the street and  nearly everything is unrecognizable. 

Here is a sweet song written by a student right after the storm. 
(I promise you won't be disappointed)

Tuesday, May 17, 2011

Cotton Balls

Today I am linking up over at Beth's for Tips and Tricks Tuesday.


I do not have anything monumental to share but a useful tip nonetheless.
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Ever make a pillow and when you finish stuffing it you realize the corners are really floppy?
see what I mean??
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Well I have the perfect solution for you. 
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Run into your bathroom and grab a handfull of cottonballs

Take 2 or 3 and begin stuffing your corners until you get a taunt look.


See how much better the corners look already??


Do you see the difference??



Ahhhh... much better. 

hope you will join us and link up over at Beth's

Saturday, May 14, 2011

Escape

Two weeks ago we took a trip down to go and see Casey's family. 

While we were there we escaped for the day to sneak over to my most favorite place in the whole wide world... destin, florida.
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We did some much needed shopping and bought the hubs some new work shoes.
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Then hit up one of our fave hangouts and got about 2 hours of beach time in.


We used this moment while we waited as prime photo op time.




this was her favorite thing...
digging her hands way deep down in the sand and then flinging the sand up in the air. 
pretty sure i scrubbed her scalp forever trying to get all the tiny grains of sand out...

she had a blast playing on the swingset.

but like most good things, they must come to an end so we packed up and headed home to Mimi's.

Can't wait to go back again.







Friday, May 13, 2011

Egg Hunt

How am I just now remembering to post these pictures??
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We went up to the school where I teach for an egg hunt and unfortunately this is the only one we made it to this year.
It was unbelievably cold this day;
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but we didn't let that stop us from having a good time.

things started off great with the hunt.
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I loved how they actually age divided and it wasnt a parents competiton for who's kids could get the most eggs.
(you have met this type, i have been known to be this type at children's clothing consignment sales. shh dont tell)
pawpaw came in town for the weekend and was able to offer some pretty sweet pointers.

then we found a pretty sweet stash in some ivy.

we tried to take a family pic and this was as good as it got.




you know a little gleeful dance for a successful hunt. 
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then a boy asked for some of her eggs.
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how rude!!
jk we gladly shared.
I did manage to squeeze in a little smile at the end.

Wednesday, May 11, 2011

Ziggity Zag

One of my many new years resolution's was to teach myself to upholster.
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disregard the feet... they look like they are waiting on the flood... literally.
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and no... the painting is still not quite like I want it. maybe next week when we are out of school.

My mom gave me this chair when we moved into our home. I knew it had tons of potential but it was one of those way way down on the to do list.
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Unfortunately I did not document this adventure.. (i know i know i should have) but there were alot of bruises, hang nails, curse words,  bummed fingers you know the usual when you are learning something new...
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I did however get to borrow my friends staple gun to adhere the new fabric!! yahoo!!
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Did I mention it took me 2 weeks to get the old fabric off?? far too long. 
notice my cute little side table??
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I found out about her through Three Men and a Lady
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She found this table at Kohl's Who would have thought??
isn't her room to die for??
I loaded the top of the table with only some of my fave's.
the elle mag a friend got me on her trip to paris. thanks kara!
and that candle is HEAVEN, its volcano from anthropologie.

Update:
Since taking this picture in early march,(yes I am that behind in blogging) the chair has found it's permenant perfect home at the foot of my bed. Can't wait to show you!

Most Expensive Wall in my House

See the picture of my super cute hallway??
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Notice anything that looks really pricey??
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Look again.

well it just so happens we FINALLY got our diploma's framed and hung on the wall.
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It feels so good to have both of these hanging. 
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Lots of blood sweat and tears were shed over these 8 x 10 pieces of paper. 

Monday, May 2, 2011

Naptime Bookshelf

Any of you ever visit Ana-white.com??
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One of you sweet readers Anonymously told me about her site.
{i would love to know who you are so I can personally come and hug your neck!!! seriously!!!}


Soon after finding out about the site
I spent way way too long scouring the site for things we could build.
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About that time we were in the market for a bookshelf to go in lil bit's room.
Loved PBKids and $119 wasn't too bad in my book.
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But hubby was determined to build something on his own.
{here is the link to the plans}
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We printed off the extremely detailed plans, took our list to Home Depot and purchased everything on the shopping list. 
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I went to work and hubby took baby to nap @ my parents. 
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In a little over an hour and a half he had a complete copy cat of the PB Shelf. 

Their Shelf
$119.00

Our Shelf

$46.00
materials 39.00
paint 7.00
still torn on whether or not to paint the shelf white.
thoughts??
I am linking up with Primitive and Proper on painted furniture.